Dear Giztpluz, I am really
confused as to what to do in this
situation. I met this guy online
about 3 and half years ago and we
After about 2 months of steady chats
and calls and I thought this was my
perfect guy, he invited me over. He
paid a return ticket for me to come
see him in his town. We had agreed
on no intimacy as I had decided then
not to do it till I get married, then
share it with my husband.
On
reaching there he was very nice and
caring no doubt, he took me to all the
nice places and seemed really normal.
We later ended the day in his house
and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea
to go to bed with and unknown to me
the tea was drugged.
That is the last I remember of that
night. Only to wake up in the morning
to find myself Unclad on his bed and
obviously raped. I have never felt
more betrayed in my life. I felt like I
betrayed myself to just trust someone
based on a few chats and calls. I
began to cry so badly, but thanking
God for even sparing my life. Could
have been a ritualist.
That was the last day I saw him. I
travelled out later that year to run a
master’s program and returned
middle of this year. Only to catch up
with my best friend and she’s all
happy that she’s getting married and
wants me to be her maid-of-honor.
Showed me their pre-wedding pics
and it’s this same guy that raped me
about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in
2 months and I’ve been thinking. I
don’t think I should dignify that
b*d by even attending his
wedding but I don’t know how to tell
my friend about him, or if to even tell
her cos I don’t want to come across as
an enemy of progress.
Please if you were in my shoes, what
would you do?
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