Sunday 11 January 2015

13 Untold Secrets On How To Be A Good Dad

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The father-child relationship is not only important in the life of a growing child but also in the wellbeing of the family and the society at large. Everybody being a father or a potential father will always want to be a great dads to their child but not everybody has the clear understanding of  the attributes that makes up a great dad.

We should know that being a good dad is not all about taking you children on vacation, buying them toys and doing things that you’ve seen other dads do to make their children happy and feel loved. But being a great father is all about  helping your children understand the real meaning of life, opening their eyes to those things that will look to them as a closed, dark door so that they can see what life is all about. Being  helping them to be good and responsible men and women who will influence and add positive things into the community.

how to be a good dad

 

This article is for fathers who really love their kids and are doing everything possible to be better dads. Even if you are not a father yet, this article will show you how to be a good dad and treat your unborn kids in a way that, when they get old and die, they will thank their creator personally for giving them a dad like you.

So, who is a good dad, and what are those attributes that makes up a good dad? Unfortunately, so many fathers of today pride themselves around thinking they are being the best dad for their kids but while most of them are just doing a little, so many others are doing nothing. They are not adding anything to the lives of these young ones that will soon be the leaders of tomorrow. Every day, they are all drenched with their work, trying to rake in cash into the family, good, but the kids you are bringing in the cash for are not being trained on how to be better individuals in the society. You only spare 10% of your time for your kids, what will they be doing during the remaining 90% you are being absent from their life? You think your wife will do the rest? Nah, it doesn’t work that way, every one of you has a different role to play in the life of your child. That is why, it takes a strong, single mother to raise a child effectively.

A good dad will not choose a career for his child or ask him/her “what do you want to become in future”, a good dad will look into the child’s eyes and also from the child’s behavior to tell what the child’s talent is, what the child likes doing, and then help the child to build it up by evaluating what he has foreseen from the child. It’s weird right? How you will look into your child’s eye and tell what he has being destined to be. Well, if you see that as being weird, I bet you that is the easiest and happiest things to do for your child. Let me show you how to do that with this 13 steps:

 

How To Be A Good Dad



  • Spend a lot of time with your child:

  • Relate Effectively With Your Child’s Class Teacher

  • Give them assignments and lavish praises on them even when they got it all wrong

  • Talk little and listen more when your child talks about things he/she finds fascinating

  • Answer your child’s questions like it’s your promotional exam

  • Love your wife like never before

  • Sometimes, take your child to your work place

  • Say “I love you” to your child, often

  • Learn how to pull your child back to your arms after punishing or scolding him/her.

  • Children are quite sensitive and they learn from their parents, so, watch what you say, do and how you act around your child.

  • Help your child explore many activities and mark those activities that fascinate him a lot.

  • Help your child create a circle of friends who are fascinated about the same things as your child.

  • No matter how awkward things that fascinate your child are, so far they are not going to ruin your child, never try to stop them. Either for your selfish reason or because of what people will say.


With all this points well implemented, you will able to be the most amazing dad ever. Bringing out the best in the life of your child has never being easier.
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  1. It is so hard to become a parent especially a dad. There are things that our parents cannot do for their children.
    Daddy Knows Too

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